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Dealing with displacement: Expats and third culture kids

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Expatriates and Third Culture Kids (TCKs) face shared issues when it comes to adapting to new cultures, grappling with shifting identities, and feeling out of place. Both can feel disconnected from their home countries and struggle with evolving senses of self when they find themselves in foreign environments.

Challenges for TCKs: Embracing Diversity

TCKs are children who grow up in cultures different from their parents’, often due to their parents’ international careers as expatriates, diplomats, or global professionals. These children develop unique identities shaped by a blend of their family’s heritage and the culture of their host countries, forming a “third culture” dynamic.

TCKs frequently relocate, which helps them to adapt to new environments and societies. However, this mobility can lead to a sense of rootlessness, as they may feel at home “everywhere and nowhere”. While they’re adaptable, they often struggle with questions of identity and belonging, unable to fully connect with any single culture. Emotional instability, isolation, and difficulty forming lasting relationships can arise.

Despite these struggles, TCKs develop valuable skills such as linguistic proficiency, cultural sensitivity, and a global perspective. However, constant relocations can disrupt academic progress and social connections, creating instability. Over time, TCKs cultivate resilience, empathy, and open-mindedness, preparing them for international careers and cross-cultural understanding. Their experiences offer them a unique worldview, making them adaptable and globally minded individuals.

Challenges for Expatriate Partners: Identity, Isolation & Reinvention

Being the partner of an expatriate who has moved for work presents both opportunities and concerns. One of the primary difficulties is the loss of professional identity, as many partners leave behind established careers when they relocate. This loss is compounded by the social isolation that often accompanies moving to a new country, where building connections can be tricky. Additionally, adjusting to new cultural norms, managing household responsibilities, and navigating unfamiliar systems can feel overwhelming.
Many expatriate partners also face a sense of lost purpose when their careers are paused, and financial dependence on their expatriate partner can strain the relationship. The added responsibility of supporting children’s adjustment to their new environment further complicates the experience.

To ease this transition, expatriate partners can explore professional development through remote work, online courses, or volunteering. Joining expatriate communities, attending cultural classes, or participating in local activities can help build social networks and establish a sense of belonging. Focusing on personal growth, sharing responsibilities with the expatriate partner, and creating routines can also provide stability. Open communication and regular relationship check-ins are key to managing emotional and relational roadblocks.

“Adjusting to new cultural norms and navigating unfamiliar systems can feel overwhelming”

Encouraging financial independence and involving the expatriate partner in decision-making can help achieve a more balanced life abroad. With the right support and mindset, settling into a new country can become one of personal growth, empowerment and fulfilment.
In both cases, the challenges faced by expatriate wives and TCKs can lead to personal transformation. Their experiences of adaptation, resilience, and cultural immersion provide them with a broad and valuable perspective, preparing them for future success in a globalised world.

Emmanuelle O’Grady is the Principal Clinical Psychologist (Child & Adolescent) at International Medical Clinic – Children’s. Bilingual in English and French, she has over 20 years of experience working with children, families, and schools in Singapore. She is available for bookings at the clinic.

 

 

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Where to find the best facelift in Bangkok!

As far as new looks go, it doesn’t get much better than the one at Dusit Thani Bangkok. For those seeking accommodation that offers something fresh, evocative and with a hint of history, look no further for a fabulous travel destination.

What’s new here?

Everything! This hotel opened its doors late last year after a five-year facelift. The original Dusit Thani Bangkok was built in 1970 as one of the city’s first luxury hotels. It quickly became beloved by Thailand’s high society, and for the following decades quietly observed as the Silom area blossomed around it, while basking in its iconic, supermodel-esque status.

However, like many of us post 50 years old, the hotel needed a makeover. In a bold move, the property was completely torn down in 2019 and rebuilt from the ground up. Covid delayed the overhaul somewhat, but it was worth the wait. Like a phoenix rising from the ashes, the new Dusit Thani Bangkok is a reincarnation that has wildly outshone itself.

Left: The sultry 1970s Bar. Right: The pool on the 39th floor

How’s the revamp?

The stunning aesthetics are all down to Hong Kong interior designer André Fu. This new manifestation reinterprets the original hotel’s classic qualities through a modern lens, and Fu had a hand in every detail – from the lavish fifth-floor wellness centre to the impressive array of elegant lampshades. The building is still standing tall at 39 floors, but with 257 rooms, down from 517, Fu had more communal space to play with. The revamp now includes one of the largest ballrooms in Bangkok, the seductive 1970s Bar, and the fabulous Spire Rooftop Bar, which features nightly DJ performances and a cool cocktail selection. The “Antimatter” hit the spot with its whisky-forward yuzu and lychee flavours, with a touch of Thai spice for an exotic kick.

The chichi ambience of the Dusit Thani envelopes you the moment you enter the glass-fronted, triple-height lobby, washed in subtle shades of cream, latte, and aquamarine. Old-school grandeur comes to life with hexagonal ceiling pleats inspired by lotus leaves, and flowing bronze screens. But it’s the two ornately painted stone pillars standing tall beside delicate sculptures and murals that gets our design-loving hearts thumping. Both pillars were salvaged from the original property’s Benjarong restaurant. Adorned with hand-painted murals, they make for stunning visual showstoppers. The hotel also showcases Thai artists, featuring sculptures, earthenware, and murals.

What are the sleeping arrangements?

All guest rooms are situated on one side of the building, offering views of Lumpini Park from every one. Huge box windows offer incredible views of lush greenery set amidst ever-expanding skyscrapers, which appear to stand guard over the capital. Hours can be spent resting on the padded window seats, watching cars race along Rama IV Road below, while in the distance, park-goers enjoy a game of tennis and boating among the trees.

Inside the rooms, pistachio wainscoting with Japanese vibes contrast beautifully with celadon silk rugs, bronze detailing, and soft gold fabric screens crafted by local artisans. The bathroom is a wonder to behold. The large soaking tub will become part of every guest’s pre-evening cocktail ritual. A special shout-out goes to the Japanese toilet, which lifts its perfectly heated seat automatically when you open the door. (Endless fun ahead!).

Club rooms and suites come with Porsche airport transfers and access to the 39th-floor club lounge and terrace, which serves food and drinks throughout the day.

Left: Two pillars from the original 1970’s hotel welcome guests as they enter the building. Right: Dusit Thani Bangkok’s triple-height lobby, complete with ceiling pleats.

Where are we dining?

All-day restaurant, The Pavilion, carries a speakeasy-like allure. The breakfast selection is massive, featuring hot and cold hams, cheeses, sausages, salads, piles of tropical fruit, freshly baked pastries, plus made-to-order eggs and plenty of Thai fare.

Committed to preserving the essence of historic Dusit Thani flavours, the evening menu here showcases authentic Thai dishes with Cantonese specialities. Our starter of Yum Som Choon Som O was a salad of melt-in-your-mouth Phichit pomelo, green mango, braised pork, and fluffy fried fish. The Massaman Wagyu curry was a thick, homestyle treat of beef shank, potatoes, and lotus seeds with crispy roti bread for dipping. A trio of ice creams – young coconut, caramelised banana, and mango sticky rice – followed to cleanse the palate. We recommend bagging a seat by the window overlooking the outdoor “waterfall” – a reimagined nod to the original that featured in the inaugural building.

Can we just hang out?

There’s no better place to recline than beside the 25-metre infinity pool. Located on the fifth floor, it blends seamlessly into the surrounding skyline, and swimming here feels like floating at one with the city. Flanked by whirlpool baths and plush loungers, take a dip as the sun sets, and the surroundings begin to twinkle with nighttime promise. There’s also an enormous gym, a “sanctuary dome” where guests can join yoga and sound healing sessions, and the Devarana Spa, offering traditional Thai healing practices alongside fancy French facials. If shopping’s more your thing, a brand-new mall is slated to open as part of the Dusit Thani complex towards the latter part of 2025, meaning you’ll have top-notch accommodation, high fashion, food, relaxation, and quintessential Bangkok magic neatly packaged in one perfectly renovated and rejuvenated spot.

98 Thanon Rama IV, Si Lom, Khet Bang Rak, Krung Thep Maha Nakhon 10500 Thailand
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How to achieve financial success in 2025

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Something that’s always on our to-do list is finances. Many want to start the year off right, by organising their finances to ensure a successful and fruitful year. But then, many get stuck, pondering on where to begin. Here are five ways expatriates in Singapore can achieve financial success in 2025!

1. Create a Budget

Every great plan has sturdy foundations. That’s why it’s essential to develop a comprehensive budget that reflects your income and expenses. It’s crucial to account for factors such as housing, schooling, and healthcare.

Establish a monthly budget that includes all your necessary expenses—rent, utilities, groceries, and transportation—while also allocating funds for savings and discretionary spending. This will help you identify unnecessary spending and make adjustments to ensure you stay within your budget. I like to use the 50/30/20 rule (50% on necessary expenses, 30% on lifestyle & 20% on savings & investments) as a starting point.

2. Build an Emergency Fund

Life can be unpredictable, and having an emergency fund is essential for financial stability. Aim to set aside at least three to six months’ worth of living expenses in a high-yield savings account. This fund will act as a safety net in case of unexpected events such as job loss, medical emergencies, or urgent travel.

Establishing this fund will give you peace of mind and allow you to focus on long-term financial goals without the constant worry of financial insecurity.

3. Open an SRS Account

The SRS (Supplementary Retirement Scheme) is a voluntary savings scheme designed to encourage individuals to save for retirement while benefiting from tax concessions. Investing in an SRS account allows you to contribute up to SGD 15,300 (for Singaporeans and PRs) or SGD 35,700 (for foreigners) annually, depending on your residency status.

https://www.iras.gov.sg/taxes/individual-income-tax/basics-of-individual-income-tax/special-tax-schemes/srs-contributions

The contributions you make to your SRS account are eligible for tax relief, reducing your taxable income. Additionally, the funds in your SRS account can be invested in various financial instruments such as stocks, bonds, and mutual funds, giving you the potential for growth. I would strongly advise not leaving the money as cash within your SRS account, eroding against inflation and investing that money instead.

4. Invest Wisely

Following on from the previous point, investing is a key component of financial success. With the right approach, you can grow your wealth and prepare for the future. Consider your risk tolerance and consider diversifying your portfolio to mitigate potential losses. Understand your objectives, and remember that investing is for the long term, not just for the quick wins.

Seek advice from financial advisors to gain insights into the best practices for investing in Singapore.

5. Stay Informed About Tax Regulations

As an expat, understanding Singapore’s tax regulations is vital to your financial success. Familiarise yourself with the tax obligations that apply to you, including income tax rates and any reliefs or exemptions available. Consulting with a tax advisor who specialises in expat taxation can help you navigate this complex landscape and ensure you meet all your obligations while maximising any potential benefits. Remember, take into consideration the tax in the country you live in, the tax rules of your home country, and the tax rules of any country you have assets in.

Achieving financial success as an expat in Singapore is attainable with the right strategies. By following these five simple tips, you can set yourself up for a prosperous year ahead. With careful planning and discipline, your financial future in Singapore can be bright and rewarding.

The value of an investment with St. James’s Place will be directly linked to the performance of the funds selected and may fall as well as rise. You may get back less than the amount invested.

The levels and bases of taxation and reliefs from taxation can change at any time. The value of any tax relief depends on individual circumstances. You are advised to seek independent tax advice from suitably qualified professionals before making any decision as to the tax implications of any investment.

 

Danielle Teboul
danielle.teboul@sjpp.asia
+65 84457792
www.selectinvestors.sg

The ‘St. James’s Place Partnership’ and the titles ‘Partner’ and ‘Partner Practice’ are marketing terms used to describe St. James’s Place representatives. Members of the St. James’s Place Partnership in Singapore represent St. James’s Place (Singapore) Private Limited, which is part of the St. James’s Place Wealth Management Group, and it is regulated by the Monetary Authority of Singapore and is a member of the Investment Management Association of Singapore and Association of Financial Advisers (Singapore). Company Registration No. 200406398R. Capital Markets Services Licence No. CMS100851. St. James’s Place Wealth Management Group Ltd Registered Office: St. James’s Place House, 1 Tetbury Road, Cirencester, Gloucestershire, GL7 1FP, United Kingdom. Registered in England Number 02627518.

2025 travel trends: Stay, play, go!

2025 may already feel like an exhilarating adventure, but in terms of travel, there’s a lot more to come! We explore the hottest new travel destinations, game-changing hotel openings, and emerging trends that cater to every type of traveller. Whether you’re seeking a family-friendly escape, a romantic retreat, an adventurous solo getaway, or a fun-filled trip with friends, 2025 promises something for everyone – the world is evolving, and so are our ways of exploring it. Read on!

Left: Mandai Rainforest Resort by Banyan Tree Right: Forte San Giorgio in the Tuscan Archipelago of Italy

Your wild SG staycay

Mandai Rainforest Resort by Banyan Tree at Singapore’s Mandai Wildlife Reserve is now open for roving escapades! The whopping 338 rooms nestled within lush rainforest provide epic views of Singapore’s Upper Seletar Reservoir and have a focus on sustainability and a connection to nature. Offering wildlife walks, curated wellness retreats, forest activities, and more, it’s your 2025 stress-free staycay with a biophilic spin.
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(Re)treat yourself

Looking for a life-changing escape? Forte San Giorgio in the Tuscan Archipelago of Italy is hosting two seven-day courses in May 2025. The retreats include daily movement sessions such as lifting, yoga, hiking and breath work, plus organic meals, educational workshops, posture and movement assessment, and complimentary massages.
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Left: Kuala Lumpur Park Hyatt hotel. Right: The Malkai in Oman (Pic Supplied By The Malaka)

Tall order In KL

A sky-high celebration of Malaysia’s heritage is now in Kuala Lumpur thanks to the country’s first Park Hyatt hotel. Occupying the top 17 floors of the Merdeka 118 Tower, guests receive 5 star lux and vistas to match. It’s not only the tallest building in Southeast Asia, but the second tallest building in the world!
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Go glamping in Oman

Opening later this year, The Malkai arrives in the Sultanate of Oman. Three sites will give jet-setters a base from which to explore the country’s heritage, culture and landscapes: the coastal plains of Barka near Muscat, the high Al Hajar Mountains and the sweeping Sharqiya Sands. Each site will have 15 luxurious tented pavilions along with dining rooms, spas and infinity pools.
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Sporty stuff

  • Ski Season Already
    If your mind’s on an end-of-year ski trip, steel your salopettes for action. Scandinavian-inspired Cassia Hirafu Niseko resort is set to open in Q4 and offers more than 120 accommodations, ranging from one-bedroom suites to uber-indulgent penthouses, ski-in/ski-out convenience, curated dining options, and the beauty of nearby hot springs and the Hirafu slopes.
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  • Padel in paradise?
    Our ANZA Padel members enjoy regular knock-abouts at MBPS Sports @ Marina Tennis Centre, but we bet they wouldn’t mind a few matches at the new court at Vakkaru Maldives!
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Choo-choo!

Debuting in July 2025, the historic Britannic Explorer, A Belmond Train (United Kingdom) offers a three-night journey through England and Wales, showcasing the splendour of the countryside. Serene and elegant rooms and food by Michelin-starred Chef Simon Rogan will add a touch of high-glamour should there be any chance of grey weather outside.
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Flights of fancy

Buckle up for these new travel routes

  • From March 2025, direct flights from Singapore to Siem Reap will be available with Air Asia Cambodia. At around a quarter of the price of SQ flights, you can spend a weekend exploring the temples of Angkor Wat and potentially splash out at Shinta Mani Angkor, a chic property designed by Bill Bensley.
    shintamani.com
  • The new Lhasa – Chongqing – Singapore international route by West Air gives travellers the opportunity to discover Lhasa’s rich religious culture and historical sites, the magnificent Potala Palace, the lofty Tanggula Mountains, and the crystal-blue Namtso Lake that make up the incredible Tibetan Plateau.
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Left: Andaz Gold Coast Right: Hyatt Central Sydney

 

Return to Oz

If you’re heading to Australia this year, consider these new super-stays. First, Andaz Gold Coast has opened as part of The Star Gold Coast. Overlooking Broadbeach, the stylish outdoor pool deck is set to become a hotspot, complete with a cocktail bar, beach club with private cabanas, and alfresco dining. Meanwhile, in Sydney, Caption by Hyatt Central Sydney provides a stay deeply rooted in the local community.
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Left: tequila Right: The Royal Mansour Tamuda Bay, Morocco

Make a date with Mexico

New to the exquisite Aman portfolio is Amanvari, set along the tranquil shores of the Sea of Cortés on Baja’s East Cape. Its pavilions and private residences feature open-plan layouts with expansive floor-to-ceiling glass walls, private courtyards and serene views. Wellness, locally sourced cuisine and solitude will be the name of the game here. And perhaps a tequila or two.
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Souk’s you!

For those dreaming of souks, snake charmers and Mediterranean sunshine, The Royal Mansour Tamuda Bay, Morocco is ideal for families, friends and couples. It features 55 opulent suites, a Medi-Spa, fine dining restaurants, and endless activities along a 700-metre stretch of white sand. In addition, the kids’ club is an absolute winner.
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Left: Chateau de Fiac Right: Maison Cheval Blanc in the Seychelles

French fancy

If you love France but have visited all the obvious landmarks, make the lesser-known Occitania region of southern France your next go-to. The elegant Chateau de Fiac reopened in February – offering cycling to spa treatments, shopping to golf, this 19th-century pile has everything for a charming European break with a difference.
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See you in the Seychelles

The sixth Maison Cheval Blanc, curled around the Anse Intendance beach on Mahé Island in the Seychelles, is now open. Villas offer uninterrupted panoramas of the Indian Ocean, five restaurants – including Creole-inspired Le White and French gastronomy at Le 1947 – and the iconic Spa Cheval Blanc, crafted by Guerlain, which offers treatments inspired by the island’s customary calm and tranquil aura.
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THE BUZZWORDS

  • Travel JOMO
    The antidote to FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out), Joy Of Missing Out includes travelling off-grid, forgetting self-conscious selfies, forgoing social media posting, and just enjoying your holiday. Radical!
  • Longevity Packages
    Our quest to live longer is showing no signs of waning. As research reveals that social connection can increase our odds of survival by 50%, Revivo Wellness Resort Bali is just one of the brands fostering longevity through daily classes, resistance training, and spa therapies.
    revivoresorts.com
  • Menopause Retreats
    Resorts such as Preidlhof Spa Hotel in South Tyrol, Italy, (preidlhof.com) Six Senses Vana, India (sixsenses.com), and Amilla Maldives (amilla.com) are offering perimenopause and menopause retreats, featuring treatments ranging from acupuncture to bioidentical hormone replacement.
  • Pub & Scrub
    All the rage in the UK, book a high-end pub stay complete with beauty treatment. At the Bath Arms in Longleat, you can hit the beer, hit your bed, then sort your hangover with a facial or massage at their treatment cabin in the garden.
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Say hello to Broome & the Kimberley!

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Mitchell Plateau (Photo by CJ Maddock)

Perched on the shore of the Indian Ocean on the northwest coast of Australia, approaching Broome by air provides your first indication that this is a place of breathtaking natural beauty. You’ll be awestruck by the incredible palette of colors below – turquoise waters, golden sands, and rust-red earth blending together to create a stunning natural masterpiece.

A direct 4.5-hour Jetstar Asia flight from Singapore (April – October) with no time zone difference makes Broome an easy and irresistible getaway. Despite its population of just 15,000, this charming town is packed with incredible experiences. It’s the perfect place for a short break to unwind or to jump-start your exploration of the vast Kimberley wilderness.

James Price Point (Photo by CJ Maddock)

Soon after arrival, you’ll be drawn to the ocean, whether to relax on the beach for a spectacular sunset or to take in the vista from a different perspective – high astride a camel on a sunset beach ride. Join a boat cruise to witness nature writ large: the largest humpback whale migration in the world, pods of the shy but photogenic snubfin dolphins, and turtles aplenty. Or step back into the Cretaceous period on a mission to discover the most diverse collection of dinosaur footprints on the planet. For those with a passion for fishing, the catch of the day could be yours on a fishing charter.

Emma Gorge (Photo by El Questro Wilderness Park)

Broome’s connection to the sea runs deeper than just its beaches – it is the heart of Australia’s pearling industry. Once the pearling capital of the world, its waters produced 80% of the world’s pearl shell. Visitors can learn about this fascinating history through local tours or explore the many jewelry retailers showcasing the exquisite, locally sourced pearls that continue to captivate the world with their size, shape, and quality.

The cultural landscape is as vibrant as its nature, blending rich heritage with modern creativity. The town boasts a thriving arts scene, a blossoming food culture, and a calendar brimming with events that celebrate its diverse roots. Take a guided tour with a local guide to uncover the Indigenous stories of Broome and explore its stunning mangroves and mudflats. Visit local galleries and studios to experience art through the eyes of both Indigenous and non-Indigenous artists, inspired by the region’s breathtaking landscapes.
Don’t miss the annual Shinju Matsuri festival or the magical Staircase to the Moon, a natural phenomenon that lights up Broome’s night sky.

Purnululu National Park (Photo by CJ Maddock)

Broome’s food scene is just as dynamic, offering a mix of local and global flavours. Sip on locally brewed beers at Matso’s Brewery or Spinifex Brewing Co., or unwind with a craft cocktail at The Broome Closet. For a stunning beachside dining experience, head to Cable Beach House or Cable Beach Club Resort. Papa Fuego is the place to be if you’re craving something with a South American twist. To dive deeper into Broome’s culinary delights, join a heritage walking tour that pairs local history with the region’s diverse food offerings.

Design your own adventure

For those who wish to immerse themselves in all the Kimberley has to offer, Broome serves as the ideal launch point for adventure by road or air. One of the best ways to explore is by hiring a 4WD or campervan. This gives you the flexibility to design your own adventure, whether you’re taking a few days to discover the coastal delights of the Dampier Peninsula north of Broome or heading east to gorge and boab country. Imagine camping under the stars along the coast for a few nights, exploring the shoreline by boat, or joining local guides for an unforgettable tour. Alternatively, take a 6-day 4WD loop to uncover the breathtaking beauty of Dalmanyi Bell Gorge and Bandilgnan Windjana Gorge.

The Horizontal Falls (Photo bY Mount Hart Wilderness Lodge)

You can also join a guided 4WD tour to let someone else drive while you explore the incredible gorges and landscapes. These tours provide access to some of the region’s most remote and spectacular locations, like the World Heritage-listed Bungle Bungle Range. Whether it’s a 5-day Broome-to-Bungles return trip with Kimberley Wild or the immersive 6-day West Kimberley Expedition with Ventur Atlas, these tours offer a truly unforgettable adventure.

Camels on Cable Beach (Photo by CJ Maddock)

One of the greatest things about Broome is that it offers action-packed itineraries that feature lots of adventure without needing weeks of travel time. Whether you’re hiking through rugged gorges, swimming in crystal-clear waterholes, or relaxing on Cable Beach, Broome allows you to combine the thrill of the outback with the laid-back charm of coastal life. A few days here, paired with an exploration of the Kimberley, will leave you with lifelong memories.

 

Ready for your next adventure? Broome is waiting for you.

 

 

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Lights, Camera, Thailand!

Thailand is used to getting attention. In 1974, the Bond film The Man With The Golden Gun shot several scenes around Bangkok and Phang Nga Bay. In the 1980’s, the Rambo franchise used the awe-inspiring scenery of Chiang Mai as a backdrop. In the 2000’s, The Beach chose Koh Phi Phi to depict its fictional secret idyll, while Renée Zellweger, Colin Firth, and Hugh Grant packed for Phuket to film Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason.

Thanks to the award-winning HBO series The White Lotus, The Land of Smiles is once again set for stardom. If you’ve had a chance to catch the show’s third series, out now, it likely won’t just be the high-octane drama that’s keeping you hooked, but also the striking backdrop of Koh Samui. Sitting pretty in the Gulf of Thailand, this darling island has so far kept its beauty under wraps. But naturally, word gets out. “The kingdom’s exotic natural beauty, rich historical sites, and diverse landscapes are the perfect settings to share our fascinating culture, fantastic cuisine, top-notch wellness offerings, and people,” said Thapanee Kiatphaibool, governor of the Tourism Authority of Thailand.

Right: Scenes from The White Lotus (Credit: WHITE LOTUS 3 Instagram)

Just as the previous filming locations of series one and two saw an influx of tourists to Hawaii and Italy, the “White Lotus Effect” is already in full swing in the region, with many major travel operators seeing spikes in bookings. Find Your White Lotus tours abound and rooms at Four Seasons Koh Samui – where the majority of filming took place – are selling for USD$12,000 per night.

Thankfully, there are more affordable places to stay on Koh Samui, and I’m on my way to one of them – Ban Suriya, a luxury villa on Lipa Noi beach. Unlike my first jaunt to Thailand back in 2002, when I landed with a backpack and the name of a beach scribbled on an A4 piece of paper, my arrival at the property is a far more stylish experience. I’m picked up by my host, The Luxe Nomad, at Koh Samui airport, and whisked by private vehicle to the lesser-explored west of the island, just 20 minutes away.

Right: Jo shows Chef Teddy how to stir like a pro.

Beachfront escape

Ban Suriya oozes take-it-easy vibes. The moment I step inside, I feel like I’m in an episode of Selling Sunset, just without the tan, teeth, and endless legs. It’s fresh, contemporary, stunning and snazzy. Being a beachfront escape, the entire villa is awash with radiant natural light, making you feel warm and welcome from the get-go. Designed with sophistication and style by a Singaporean designer, I enter an extensive ground-floor social area where sleek tones meet vibrant blues that echo the hues of the sky and sea beyond. Before me lies an elegantly appointed dining space with a large table nestled between a curl-up-and-cosy reading nook and a relaxing “media” lounge with a sinkable sofa, TV, books and board games, perfect for unwinding in the evening or for escaping the sunshine during the day. Upstairs fast becomes my favourite spot with a second chill-out area complete with vibrant artwork, cool light fittings, swinging egg chair, and an old-school Planter’s chair. Is it just me, or is said chair crying out to be joined by a cheeky G’n’T?

Leading off the upstairs area is a balcony which makes the ideal setting for some sneaky sunbathing, a game of giant chess, or a yoga session underneath swaying palms. Alternatively, it’s the perfect place to plonk on a high seat and simply marvel at your manor below. Highlights from this angle include views of the sparkling 20-metre swim-up pool and surrounding sun loungers, the sprawling front lawn, a cute treehouse begging to be enjoyed with a cocktail in hand, and a dining table made for a patio party. Ahead lies the fine, white-sand beach of Lipa Noi, with the Gulf of Thailand stretching as far as the eye can see.

Above: This Planter’s chair has your name on it! Below: Villa views from the upstairs balcony

Framing the lawn are some of the six large and uniquely themed bedrooms. Complete with oceanfront views, each one features modern Asian architecture and is inspired by concepts such as a butterfly theme and an under-the-sea motif, providing pretty surroundings and a sense of peace. For those seeking extra seclusion, two private pavilions – one with a double bed and another with a twin room – offer fabulous hidey-homes. The twin room, especially, is great for kids, with its adjoining lounge and smaller pool so little ones can hang out away – but not too far – from parents. Nestled behind the pool is a gym space with minimal equipment, but great for mat work or a personal training session.

With a wide range of facilities available, Ban Suriya can comfortably accommodate 15 people, making it a superb choice for larger families or groups of friends. It can also host up to 150 guests for weddings. It feels so romantic as the sun sets with a wash of gold and crimson each evening, that I almost consider proposing to the pool maintenance man myself.

Exquisite dining, impeccable service

The villa’s wow factors don’t stop at its design and vistas – they also extend to the food and service. Here, you truly live the high life with your own staff on hand. I genuinely want to take the kind and wise villa manager, Tik, back to Singapore with me! The villa’s private chef, Chef Teddy, brings 26 years of experience, expertly blending traditional Thai cooking with innovative twists. Just tell him what you fancy eating each day, or ask him to surprise you, and he’ll whip up some epic feasts using fresh ingredients from the local Sri Far market and nearby stores, mixed with herbs such as chilli, kaffir lime, basil, lemongrass, and ginger – all homegrown in Ban Suriya’s grounds. While some guests send an in-depth daily meal planner ahead of arrival, I let Chef Teddy lead the way. Favourites included his Pad Thai (see right) encased in a delicate omelette, which explodes as you cut through the thin layer of egg packing thick slurry noodles, bean sprouts, carrots, and sweet roast pork. For dessert, his Bua Loy Nam King – black sesame rice balls floating in invigorating ginger tea – was an absolute banger.

“Physical senses are experienced at a heightened level at Ban Suriya”

Alongside taking part in Chef Teddy’s cooking classes and badgering him for his secret recipes, there are all manner of activities available for all ages. For children, there’s a pool table, table tennis, volleyball, and inflatable unicorns can also magically appear by the pool if you so wish. Tik tells me that Muay Thai boxing classes are especially popular with kids and teens. Spa treatments, massage services and yoga can be arranged upon request. For more watery sports, guests can try kayaking, SUP boarding, or jet skiing. Alternatively, you can do nothing at all. All physical senses are experienced at a weirdly heightened level at Ban Suriya – in a good way. The smell of Thai ylang-ylang, the taste of Chef Teddy’s special spicy jus, the twist of lime in the mango daiquiri, and the whisper of the breeze as it dances through the trees.

Understandably, you may not want to leave this pocket of pure paradise, but if you do, Koh Samui has plenty to offer. Ang Thong Marine National Park boasts awe-inspiring landscapes and diverse wildlife, while the Dusit Deva Cultural Centre provides a unique insight into the rich heritage of Thailand. However, if The White Lotus bug has well and truly bitten, Thai insiders claim that key scenes were shot on the nearby and remote Taling Ngam Beach, as well as at Fisherman’s Village in Bophut, with its wooden shophouses and lively market. As you stroll amidst the traditional Thai architecture, soaking up the buzzy atmosphere, just keep your eyes peeled for signs of high-jinx, outrageous misbehaviour, and the odd illicit holiday act in the shadows . . !

More luxurious villas to love

  • For cosy privacy: BAN HINYAI 
    Located on the southern coast of Koh Samui, this homely villa combines simple, modern design with natural elements. Pack for five beautifully appointed bedrooms, a kitchen, and a hip lounge which is ideal for movie viewing. Floor-to-ceiling windows open up to an expansive outdoor area and infinity pool with amazing views of the Gulf of Thailand. There’s also a huge table ideal for gatherings in which to dine al-fresco under the stars. For family fun, there’s an entertainment room, plus the little private beach in front of the property is a lovely space for kids to play in safety.

  • For slinky vibes: LA LAGUNE
    Slap-bang on the beachfront, La Lagune is part Thai vibes, part Miami cool. The vibrant, modern design and jaw-dropping ocean views make this private villa all about easy-breezy lux. Recline by the vast swimming pool that merges with the horizon, surrounded by lush gardens, or enjoy the spacious rooms that flow effortlessly between indoor and outdoor living. With six stylish bedrooms, a central area of open-plan living and dining space, and a fully equipped kitchen, you feel like you’re in a painting! There’s also a private tennis court, gym, and children’s nursery. Where can we hide so we can stay forever?

  • For timeless trad: BAN SAIREE
    Experience the charm of a bygone era, all while enjoying contemporary comforts at Ban Sairee. Built in classic Lanna style, this property showcases over 50 years of intricate craftsmanship, with rich wooden floors, hand-carved details, and a vibe that transports you back in time. The nine rooms are super-charming, blending Thai elegance with modern comfort, and can accommodate up to 22 guests at one time. Whether you’re celebrating with loved ones or seeking a getaway with a gaggle of friends, the tranquil ambience here is second to none. Outside, the expansive grounds feature a refreshing swimming pool, beachfront gardens and tennis courts, giving you plenty of opportunities to play, unwind, and live your best island life.

Discover more about The Luxe Nomad at +65 3129 7704
 theluxenomad.com @theluxenomad

Hotspots: Coucou

Where are we heading?
Straight to the Swiss Alps, without the need for a passport! Coucou is a charming Swiss restaurant in the Tanjong Pagar area, offering hearty Alpine classics in a stylish yet cosy setting. Look out for the signature cuckoo clocks and the warm, inviting glow from within.

Any backstory?
Since opening in October 2019, this intimate 64-seater restaurant has built a reputation for its indulgent cheese fondues, crisp golden rösti, and expertly curated Swiss wines. Whether you’re a homesick Swiss expat or simply a lover of melted cheese (who isn’t?), this spot is a gloriously snug escape.

First impressions?
Stepping inside, you feel instantly transported to a chic Swiss chalet – minus the snow. The elegant interior, complete with rustic wooden furnishings and whimsical cuckoo clocks, create an inviting atmosphere. There’s a warmth to the place, both in decor and hospitality. The courtyard offers a charming alfresco option for those who like their fromage with a side of fresh air.

Sea Bass Fillet with Saffron Sauce and (left) Caramelized Lemon Tart with Raspberry

What’s the vibe?
Relaxed yet refined. Whether you’re here for a long, leisurely lunch or an intimate dinner, the atmosphere is convivial and welcoming. The Swiss staff are friendly and enthusiastic, eager to share their love for the cuisine and make recommendations. This is the kind of place where a simple meal turns into an experience – especially when you get lost in convo over a bubbling pot of fondue.

Tell us about the food . . .
Oh, where to begin? We kicked off with the Truite en Tartare, a fresh and zesty trout tartare paired with dill, sour cream, and green chillies – a perfect palate awakener. The Malakoff, a traditional Gruyère cheese dome, was decadently crispy on the outside and oozing with rich, melted cheese on the inside. As for the Famous Coucou Salad, its curly greens and Grand-Père dressing added a refreshing contrast to the indulgence ahead.

The pièce de résistance, was a Fondue Moitié-Moitié, a heavenly pot of half Gruyère, half Vacherin cheese, served with crusty bread for dipping. Each bite was pure, molten bliss. But just when we thought things couldn’t get any better, the mains arrived. The Sea Bass Fillet with Saffron Sauce was delicately cooked, flaky, and fragrant, while the Zurich-Style Veal Ragout with Rösti was comfort food at its finest. The devilishly creamy veal stew paired beautifully with the crisp golden potato pancake.

Left: Zurich-Style Veal Ragout with Rösti. Right: Trout Tartare

And for dessert?
The Caramelized Lemon Tart with Raspberry delivered a dreamy sweet-tart balance, rounding off our meal on a bright and zesty note.

What about the drinks?
Swiss wines are the hidden gems of the wine world, and Coucou showcases them with aplomb. Whether you opt for a crisp white or a robust red, the selection pairs well with the hearty Alpine fare. There’s also an extensive drinks menu with cocktails and spirits.

When to go?
Anytime you’re in the mood for a fondue-fuelled feast. Just be warned – once you hear that first “cuckoo,” you might never want to leave!

Coucou
 9 Craig Road, #01-01, 089669
coucou.sg

Ladies Night at Sospiri 19 March

A promotional banner for a March Ladies' Night event at Sospiri, featuring an idoor bar with modern decor and a view of Marina Bay Sands in the background. The text reads 'March Ladies Night'

Come along to ANZA’s March Ladies Night at Sospiri for discounted drinks, snacks, and chats.

We’re gathering at another gorgeous rooftop bar for our March Ladies’ Night! Join us at Sospiri for a fun-filled evening of drinks, laughter, and delicious bites. With stunning city views, a breezy Mediterranean vibe, and mouthwatering Southern Italian dishes, it’s the perfect midweek escape. Sip on refreshing cocktails, share some tasty plates, and soak in the laid-back, feel-good atmosphere.

What to expect:

  • Happy Hour until 9:30pm
  • 10% off total food & drinks (excluding promotions)

Whether you’re flying solo or with a gaggle of girlfriends, the ANZA team will be there to welcome you, so grab your girls and let’s toast to a fabulous evening!

Time : 6:30pm – 9.30pm
Venue: Sospiri, 2 Central Blvd, #07-02 IOI Central Boulevard Tower, Singapore 018916

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What’s on in Singapore in March + April 2025

Get ready for major fun ahead! From the stunning Sakura Season to international musicals and orchestral extravaganzas, there’s a whole lot happening on the red dot throughout March and April. Whatever your vibe, there’s something exciting for everyone – don’t miss out! Check out the below.

500 Voices in Celebration

This April, don’t miss the extraordinary world premiere of A Bridge Across the Sea, a brand-new choral and orchestral piece by renowned British composer Jonathan Dove CBE. As a flagship event in Tanglin Trust School’s Centenary celebrations, this spectacular concert will bring together over 500 musicians at The Esplanade.

Featuring the Tanglin music community alongside Resound Collective, Raffles Singers, and esteemed Singaporean and international soloists, this powerful performance will be conducted by the acclaimed musical director, Lien Boon Hua.

Inspired by The Ramayana – a timeless Hindu epic of good triumphing over evil – A Bridge Across the Sea promises to be an unforgettable musical experience.
Book your tickets now at esplanade.com

Blossoming Nicely

Spring is around the corner and that means Sakura Season at Gardens by the Bay! Immerse yourself in all things cherry blossom as the famous Flower Dome presents its yearly scenic landscape from
8 March – 6 April.
Flower Dome at Gardens by the Bay,
 18 Marina Gardens Drive, 018953
 gardensbythebay.com.sg

Here comes Hari Raya Puasa


Celebrate the spirit of Hari Raya Puasa, which falls on Monday, 31 March. The festivities kick off a month earlier, with vibrant Ramadan Bazaars happening across the island. The largest of them all, the Geylang Serai Ramadan Bazaar, will feature over 500 stalls offering everything from food and clothing to traditional Hari Raya goodies. Don’t miss the Hari Raya Street Light Up that adds a kaleidoscopic glow to the party.
26 February – 31 March
  1 Geylang Serai, 402001

Want more WICKED?

The Cast of Wicked, Broadway Production By Joan Marcus

Chances are you’ve seen the show, the film, and know the words off by heart, but you can never get enough WICKED! From 19 March, for a limited season only, the musical is back on the red dot to highlight just why more than 70 million people worldwide have seen this spectacular phenomenon, making the musical the 4th longest running show in Broadway history! This time, a stellar Australian cast will tell the story of what happened long before Dorothy’s day, when two other young women meet in the land of Oz . . .
19 March – 27 April.  Sands Theatre, 10 Bayfront Ave, B1-69/70 The Shoppes, Marina Bay Sands, 018971. marinabaysands.com

Sweet Sorrow

Join Singapore Ballet for a family-friendly intro to Romeo & Juliet. Shakespeare’s timeless tale tells the story of forbidden romance between two young lovers from rival families, and showcases the drama of love, loss, and fate. The Metropolitan Festival Orchestra will accompany the ballet, making it unmissable.
13 – 16 March. Esplanade – Theatres on the Bay, 1 Esplanade Drive, 038981 sistic.com.sg